Thursday, November 8, 2012

A Happy Halloween

I can't believe that November has arrived! We've had a great October, so I thought I'd chronicle some of the festivities via pictures. But first, I thought I'd write a few of my thoughts on Halloween...I was just talking to Dan about this controversial (in some Christian circles) holiday and have been mulling it over in my mind to line up my thoughts because I enjoy the season and even the day of Halloween. I love the thought of celebrating the harvest and I imagine that as our kids get older and I actually have a garden (hopefully next year) there will be even more to celebrate in  this regard. A lot of work goes into raising a garden and then storing the harvest away for winter and I think it's awesome to set aside a day to celebrate what God has provided and all the work put into setting it aside. But as far as the actual day of Halloween goes, I really enjoy the community aspect of it. Though I didn't grow up in a typical neighborhood, we still went trick or treating and made our way down the road where we could quickly say hello and briefly catch up with neighbors that we otherwise seldom came in contact with. I love that for one night a year, you can wander from house to house and meet people you otherwise just aren't very likely to interact with. And let's face it, most people, Christians included, do a terrible job of being "neighborly" and building relationships with those who live closest to us. It's pretty sad. I also love that it's all about the kids (or it should be, anyway). There really is nothing in it for the adults, but to enjoy their children having a wonderful time. My mother-in-law, Kathy, has this massive dress-up bin (really it's almost a full room) full of dress-up clothes. This room is a favorite place of all the grandkids. They love to mix and match and come up with the craziest costume they can and then make their way downstairs to parade by the adults who ooh and ahh about their most recent selection. Halloween is a night where the kids have permission to take their favorite costume and show it off to the world. As far as the candy goes, of course it's not the greatest thing, but I figure one night of indulgence is fine. I like the idea of working out some sort of a trade with the candy (have them trade me their candy for say a new book, art supplies, or whatever might be most appealing to them), so maybe in the future I'll have that option for my kids.

Obviously the aspect I'm not fond of is the evil part (evil potentially being glorified). Next year I'll have to do a bit more research behind it all, but if I remember right, I think it does have some relation to the Christian "All Saints Day," which is November 1. With all the ghosts, goblins, vampires and witches that run around on Halloween, I'd like to hear how the current traditions came about. The nice thing is that we don't have to follow the traditions of the culture. I look forward to making our own traditions as a family...taking the good and fun cultural traditions (like pumpkin carving, fun costumes, etc) and hopefully adding a few of our own!

Okay, so first up, the pumpkin patch...We decided to head to the pumpkin farm of some of our friends from church. I was surprised to find how big of a production it was. I thought it would be a simple, head out into a muddy field and pick your pumpkin out, but they had the whole shebang with a hay maze, pumpkin sling shots, a hay ride, treats for sale, and other fun things. We had a great time there as a family. The rain poured down the entire day, except for the short time we were at the pumpkin patch when there were clear skies just above the farm. It was pretty amazing!





 
 





 


That night, we headed to a friends house to carve pumpkins and enjoy good company and a chili cook-off. Wedly said it best as we headed home that night..."Daddy, fun!" Thanks for the invite Nic and Mindy!









Finally, on Halloween night, we enjoyed our church's Harvest Festival. We did the cake walk and made our way to a couple of the booths, but once Wedly found the little bounce house, we stayed there the rest of the night. He was so stinkin' cute in his little giraffe costume, but he had to be HOT jumping around all night. This year, we borrowed costumes from my sister, since she had extra's lying around her house, but I imagine that in the years to come, we'll probably take on the task of making our own, either from thrift store finds or by other means. But for this year, the costumes we had for the boys were awesome! Wedly enjoyed every minute in his giraffe costume.

Trying on costumes with Auntie Heidi, Ben, Sam and Levi



The cutest little giraffe around!

A little help from daddy while miniature golfing.
Cake walk






Thursday, November 1, 2012

Officially the end of a season of my life



Earlier this week I handed in my letter of resignation at my work, so I am officially unemployed. It was harder than I thought it would be, though I know it was the right decision for us at this point. I'm still trying to process through it all. Every social worker/adoption worker we've talked to has advised us that if at all possible, I should stay home because it's such a critical time in Wedly's life as he learns that we are dependable and trustworthy and won't suddenly disappear from his life. So, while I was only working very minimally (basically one or two 12 hour shifts a week), we decided that for the next couple of years I would take a break from work altogether. I imagine that eventually I will go back to work part-time.

I've definitely never been all in one camp as far as whether a mom should work or stay home. I can see benefits to both. I look at the stay-at-home mom's and think that it's really awesome that they are able to spend this time with their kids, molding, shaping and helping their children grow into young men and women. Who else could do a better job than the one who loves them most? And there is an endless amount of 'work' to be done within a home. But then I really admire a lot of the mom's I know that work outside the home, knowing that they love their families just as much as those who are able to stay at home. And that returning to work was a difficult decision for them. While it is important for kids to feel valued and important, I don't think they should feel like the world revolves around them. I think there can be some great lessons a child can learn from watching their mom be committed to a job outside the home. All that to say, I don't think it's a black and white issue. Growing up, my mom worked as a nurse. When we were little, she worked one weekend a month. After we were in school, she worked a little more frequently, though I don't really remember how much. It was always strange to me that there was a major part of my mom's life that I wasn't a part of. But again, I think it was good for us kids to see her committment to our family in this different aspect (financially speaking) and also great for us to have the time solo with our dad. She was a GREAT role model for us!

I enjoyed my work (usually, anyway!) and I worked with some amazing women that I will miss a lot. I definitely won't miss the stress that came at times, nor the early mornings and long 12 hour shifts, often with only a 30 minute break! I was surprised to find that quitting my job was such a humbling experience. I guess I place some value on education and knowledge and being a nurse is a part of my identity, so it'll be strange to start responding to the question "What do you do?" with "I'm a mom." I'm proud of that fact and it's something I've waited for and prayed for, but it's still a change I'm going to have to get used to! As my husband so kindly reminded me, I'm still a nurse, I'm just not currently working. And of course I can always go back! But, for now, it's an honor and priviledge to get to stay home with these two li'l cuties! I don't take that lightly!




Tuesday, October 23, 2012

A visit with Uncle Jeff and Aunt Brooke

I am so behind on posts I'd like to do, but I'll just try to plug away at them..My brother Jeff and his wife came to visit us a couple of weeks ago. It was so awesome! I've been so excited for Jeff and Brooke to meet the boys and couldn't keep the tears from my eyes when the time came. As we anticipated, Wedly loved them. He continues to ask about them and pray for them (on his own). He was pretty shy when he first met them, but warmed up quickly when they came to visit us at our home. The visit was short, but oh-so-sweet. We can't wait to see them again!!



Wedly had lots of fun with his cousins!

Our family is an ice cream family. And when you run out of spoons, you make do with what you have, even if the only spoon available is half the size of your head! :)

Grandma cuddles are the BEST!

Great company, great food.
 
Scoping out the ice cream options.



Always a game of cribbage.

 
Grandpa showing Wedly his mad skills at drawing/coloring logging trucks.

 Reading with Grandma